Constellations
So what’s the mysterious problem?
There are some problems in life that do not follow the rule “a problem shared is a problem halved.”
These mysterious problems when we share them can usually make us feel even more isolated and drowning in helplessness (as well as hopelessness) as they do not follow action and consequence, making them difficult to be understood by our friends and family.
What do you mean you took my advice and nothing happened? Why don’t you just push harder? Why don’t you try a new schedule?
But nothing has happened. You have pushed harder. You have tried a new schedule. You have adopted new habits. You have thought differently about this situation in a thousand different ways in an effort to budge it with the power of belief. You might have attended so many classes and workshops in order for things to be different, or meditated on it.
All to no f*cking avail.
What you’ve got out of it is a fresh sense of self hatred, immense confusion, exhaustion and despair.
The traditional laws of Newtonian reality remain useless as your goal remains always elusive and out of reach.
How do I know if I have this problem?
This issue in your life has been around for five to ten years, or longer.
No matter what strategies you enact, no matter what advice you take, nothing happens.
This issue makes you feel isolated, incredibly lonely and/or despairing and nihilistic.
You experience immense confusion, judging and blaming yourself even though you’ve done all you can to try and solve this issue.
You feel that life is anything but a straight forward line and would be over moon if finally, for once, whatever simple action you took would work.
If this is a health related issue, doctors remain flummoxed. You’ve gone back for all sorts of tests, had all kinds of medication, but it remains (again) as it always was - stuck.
The other side of having no response or silent stuckness is “drowning” - you’ve decided on a course of action and once you begin to enact the first step, something (or five things) always come up to interrupt your plan. It doesn’t matter how disciplined you are, life finds a way to throw you off course.
A constellation; why?
A constellation is something which can directly solve this issue or take a huge slice of “onion” off, by peeking into the energetics of the situation and creating resolution.
The problem is often so deeply embedded into the unconscious that is it difficult to be seen or to recognise what is being felt (aside from the nihilism, despair and exasperation).
Having the unconscious made conscious, having the invisible made visible, with a constellation is a tremendously healing experience that can unravel the energy creating the block.
They can be done with people. Cairistiona does them with figurines.